This is becoming a post (with permission) from the reader who emailed me the following: Ruby, I read your blog all the time. wish you wrote more thats ok though. Im not sure what to do with my life. my boyfriend and i broke up and we dated forever and now that im dating again i dont want to be … Continue reading »
Who are the most connected people in the world?
Have you ever thought about this. I am right now. Can I even define connected for you in this post? Together, knowledge, closeness, instant. This applies to loved ones and it comes from a long conversation with my aunt who lives across the country. We talked about family, love and life. All three, of which, … Continue reading »
I’m walking into spider webs, leave a message and I’ll call you back
I don’t get it. How do I always manage to get myself into these sticky situations. It’s like that theory about how disaster is drawn to certain people that’s said to make those disaster struck people feel better. It’s insane how these things happen to me. The most random, unheard of drama. For example, I’ve … Continue reading »
Oh hai, personal life… long time no see
Can someone just tell me what happened. It’s like Christmas, New Years, and pretty much all of January actually disappeared. I don’t want to openly admit that because this is the sort of thing you hear 70 women saying to each other in the change room after aquafit. But it did. Work, work, writing, starting … Continue reading »
are things in the shitter really shit?
I was with my ex boyfriend for nearly 6 years. We were the best of friends and the worst of couples. Passionate, stubborn, and madly in lust with each other. What kept us so strong for so many years was our friendship, despite all the shitty things he did and now that I look back … Continue reading »
liebster? sounds like lobster, so I’ll take it
This sounds like one of those “if you don’t forward in 5 minutes you will have bad luck for 10 years” emails. But when I read about it, I smiled. And as a writer who hasn’t won a nobel prize or any other award since university for that matter… I’ll take it. And I’ll gladly and graciously … Continue reading »
to expose or not to expose… why is this a question?
Oh sister, here we go. The other night my friend asked me why I wasn’t doing online dating. Was that really a question? I’m not sure, why don’t I have my photo posted, along with all my interests, favourite positions, and occupation, on a website that screams I’m single lets meet, have sex, and quite … Continue reading »